People care mostly about themselves first.
“Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.” ― Ruth Rendell, A Judgement
“Greed and envy took from a man’s heart everything but—well, greed and envy.” Ruth Rendell, The Best Man to Die
“The greatest danger to America’s future came from self-serving opportunism masquerading as patriotism.” ― Nathaniel Philbrick, Valiant Ambition: George Washington, Benedict Arnold, and the Fate
“Forfeiting our right to anger makes us deny ourselves, and makes us others-centered. When we start living this way, it changes everything.” Brant Hansen
“Love makes requests not demands (Gary Chapman)”.