“The number one thing I would tell you is this. You can’t fix people. You can’t change people. So the trick, if there is one,
Sometimes “help” isn’t really help. Actually, it’s more of a hinderance.
Give neither advice nor salt until you are asked for it. (Dictionary of English Proverbs/Thomas Preston) “But I was just trying to help”! Were you?
TRIGGER WARNING! DON’T READ THIS IF YOU ARE EASILY OFFENDED OR HAVE ALLERGIES YOU EXPECT OTHER PEOPLE TO WORK AROUND! I’m just venting here and