Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience (Mark Twain). Is it ever really helpful to argue? Does anything ever good come of it? I’ve never found the good of arguing being great enough to over come the bad of it. Arguing is generally a negative experience that somehow takes away from both parties something that is never the same again. We can move forward, heal ,and forgive after an argument but it’s not like anything is improved or better from the experience. People have their own opinions, ideas, wants, and needs. Trying to inflict those on another which ultimately is at the expense of the other cannot be constructive or productive in the end. If someone has to win and another has to lose” then even the “winner” loses. While many things are worth standing up and fighting for, few things are worth arguing over.