1. The overall effect on your life, health and general well-being is positive
  2. You are comfortable being yourself
  3. You are not feeling physically or emotionally stressed by the relationship
  4. You feel safe
  5. You feel valued, heard and respected
  6. It feels balanced
  7. You don’t feel like you are trying to put a square peg in a round hole
  8. You can live in accordance with your personal values
  9. Your priorities and ethics are not compromised
  10. You don’t have to choose between the relationship and people you love
  11. It gets better and better with time

Ray and Diane Carnival