Use the comments to note the good that has come from some of the bad things in your life.  It could be bad choices or it could be something bad that happened to you.

If I had not met my ex-husbands, I would not have had my children, hence my grandchildren.  I probably would not be living where I live and likely would not have met and married my true love.

If I had not broken my arm I would not have won that savings bond and been able to get my St Bernard (I happened to be the youngest patient in the hospital on the hosptial’s anniversary).

If I hadn’t gotten robbed my family would not have made the decision to move back to Georgia.

Pepper in bag